Memory & arousal system
Septal nuclei: why it's hard to let others calm you down
Even surrounded by people, you can't quite feel reassured, and loneliness weighs more than it should. This page covers what the septal nuclei do for social reward and anxiety regulation, what activates them, what shuts them off, and three sourced exercises.
Social reward and fear regulation; works with the hippocampus to dampen anxiety and support affiliation.
- Lights up with
- safe social connection · soothing · affiliation
- Quiets with
- isolation · threat
- When it is strained
- loneliness · difficulty being soothed by others · social anxiety
Train it
Reaching out
dailyInitiate a low-stakes warm interaction.
Safe contact
regularTime with trusted people or a comforting presence.
Co-regulated breathing
a few minutesBreathe slowly alongside someone you trust.
Related regions
Hippocampus · Hypothalamus · Locus coeruleus · Mammillary bodies · Lateral habenula
This page is the general mechanism, the same for everyone. Elevate estimates which of your own regions are active from what you write.
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